It has been over 48 hours since dad became paralyzed and the doctors have pretty much informed us that he will never walk again. I am stunned by all that has transpired within the past two days and I can only imagine what dad is feeling and can't even comprehend what may be going through his mind. It all seems so surreal.
Dad's radiation oncologist will attempt one last effort to help ease the pressure on his spine by giving him 3 intense doses of radiation that will be concentrated on the tumor located around his thoracic spine. Each dose is equivalent to 5 regular ones. We are hoping that it may give him feeling in his legs even if it is temporary. Even if this treatment works, unfortunately dad will be back in this same situation sooner or later. The tumors are aggressive and it is just a matter of time.
We are currently working on his home care situation. Mom does not have the capability to take care of him and his needs. We are fighting (and I mean fighting... the hospital would love it if they could have discharge him today) to keep him in the hospital for as long as possible. We have talked with hospice, social services and the doctors, and have found that the options that his insurance will cover are very limited. The plan now is to have dad move in with us and have hospice provide what is needed. They do not provide personal care but do supply any medication, equipment, and supplies we will need. It will be up to us and the family to keep him clean, comfortable, and to take care of his personal needs.
We do not know how much time dad has with us and are doing the best we can to prepare for whatever life brings. He is in constant pain and experiences many side effects from medication. We thank you all for the offers to help in any way but at this point in time, there is nothing anyone can do. All we ask is that you keep him in your thoughts and prayers. I will try to keep you posted daily. God bless you all with good health... Mary
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